You have two classes that need to use each other's features, but there is only a one-way link.
Add back pointers, and change modifiers to update both sets.
inverse of Change Bidirectional Association to Unidirectional
In the example I showed an addOrder method, but I didn't show the removeOrder method. If you want to do a remove, you would write it like the add method but set the customer to null.
Class Customer ... void removeOrder( Order arg ) { arg.setCustomer( null ); }